10 Must-Have Tools for Women Ready to Get Unstuck
Feeling stuck can be overwhelming—but sometimes, the right tools can make all the difference. Whether it’s a journal to clear your mind, a candle to create a peaceful moment, or a planner to help you move forward, these small tools are like sparks of joy, helping you take that first step.
Here are my top 10 Amazon finds for women ready to rediscover themselves and create space for healing, growth, and joy.
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1. A Journal That Inspires You to Reflect
When you are stuck or in survial mode, it feels like too much pressure and heaviness to commit to anything big or that you need to set aside big chunks of time.
The Five Minute Journal is a gentle way to get you to take action with no stress.
When I was at my lowest, adding this simple monring and night gratitude practice opened up so much space for me.
If you are on a tight budget or don't get giddy about a new journal like I do, you can create a similar practice in any simple notebook.
It's tempting to skip the writing and just think about things you are grateful for, but please give writing a go because the impact is so much bigger.
2. A Set of Colorful Pens to Spark Creativity
These pens turn even the messiest thoughts into something colorful and fun. Perfect for journaling, doodling, or making to-do lists less dreadful.
I will never not get excited about adding fun and beautiful colors to a journal page. Being 100% NOT artistic, I feel like such a badass with my colorful words and underlines. Whatever you can do to feel playful and do things just because it makes you happy, do it.
3. A Planner to Organize Your Thoughts
Someone turned me onto Clever Fox around 10 years ago. They have both dated and undated versions. For me, the undated takes the pressure off because life hits me hard and I will lose a month here and there. This way, I don't have blank pages in my face about it.
Maybe I was drawn to my first CF planner because of the yummy colors. I also like the fact that I can get a big one to accomodate my horrible handwriting.
This planner is like a breath of fresh air—clean, simple, and easy to use, while having a LOT inside of it. It’s great for breaking overwhelming days into manageable steps.
4. A Cozy Blanket for Self-Care Moments
I will never not get giddy over a soft, cozy blanket. These chunky knitted throws get bonus points for looking so darn pretty while they wait for you on the couch.
Wrap yourself up while you reflect, journal, or just take a moment to breathe. Find a color that maybe isn't perfect for your decor, but perfect for making you smile.
5. A Candle That Creates a Calm Atmosphere
First of all, the color of the jar!!! Is it just me, or is that color instantly calming? Then the smell of the candle! Ohmigosh! Calm in a jar.
Having speacial little touches like this candle around your home sends a singnal to your mind and heart that you are worth the special things JUST BECAUSE. Feelig good never needs to be justified.
Buy the candle. You deserve it.
6. A Book That Feels Like a Gentle Pep Talk
This empowering read is like having a wise, honest friend reminding you of your strength.
Untamed is one of the books I go back to a lot and somehow always find something else that deeply speeks to me or gets me revved up. After years of not reading, this is the book that lured me back. Besides the personal, I'm talking to you vibe, it is also written in short bursts which fits perfectly into a jumpy, healing journey or, well, life.
So many times I am shocked how without knowing it, I was waiting for permission to be me, do me and this book is one permission slip after the other.
7. A Water Bottle That Makes You Smlie
I hesitated to list this here becuase of all the obnoxious hype about trendy water bottles and the jokes about women having too many. This Iron Flask has been my happy bottle for years now and I swear I smile every time I see it. Find a bottle in some magical colors or buy some fun or beautiful stickers to put on your botte.
Added tip: buy a big bag of organic chia seeds and sprinkle some in every time you fill up with water. Such an easy way to take care of yourself.
8. Noise-Canceling Headphones for Quiet Moments
Holy macoroni! The best purchse I have made in a long time. Thise Soundcore noise cancelling headphones create your own bubble of peace, whether it’s to meditate, journal, or just tune out distractions. As someone who is very noise sensitive, headphones always made me squrirrely. These let me breathe. With music, with white noise, or with just the noise cancelling on, they always hit just right.
If you are not on a tight budget, go for some Sonys or the famous Bose. But if you need to stick to under $100, these or even the less expensive soundcore models will do the job.
9. Printable Self-love Affirmations Cards
Great to have on hand because the journey back to you and to loving you can feel all kinds of weird. These simple cards let you gently approach being kind to yourself without that "self love is a spa day" mumbo jumbo that feels so big and forced.
Pull a card when you’re feeling overwhelmed. These prompts are great for shifting your mindset in just a minute or two.
10. A Vision Board Kit for Big Dreams
Visualizing your goals is a powerful way to spark change. This kit has everything you need to get started. As someone who loves arts and crafts but never gives myself the time or permission to create, this is such a great way to let loose and have some fun. I love that I don't have to go searching for anything. Also love that they offer a version for Black women.
Conclusion:
Getting unstuck doesn’t have to be complicated. Sometimes, it’s the little things—like a good pen or a cozy candle—that create the space for big shifts. It's like planting little permission slips for you to start trusting that feeling of joy just for joy's sake. Which tool from this list speaks to you the most?
Click below to grab one (or a few) and take your first step toward rediscovering your spark!
