How and WHY to Get Started on Bluesky

The Why and How of Bluesky (and Social Media in General)

Social media can be a strange place, especially when you’re trying to rediscover yourself and find your voice. Bluesky, though, feels different—it’s a quieter, more positive corner of the internet. Anyone who has spent time on social media this past year knows what an energy drain it has become. The beauty of Bluesky is there is no gaslighting, no trolls running wild, and a block button that works like magic. It’s like stepping into a cozy café where everyone’s just vibing.

(if you want to go straight to the getting started tips, scroll to the bottom!)

But here’s the thing: stepping into that café doesn’t mean people will immediately turn and applaud your arrival. (Rude, I know.) You post, hoping for that Steven King-level reception, and instead, it’s... crickets. Maybe one like from a bot named Greg.

So, why keep showing up?

1. Rediscovery Takes Practice: Finding your voice isn’t a one-and-done deal. Every post, every

   thought you put out there, is a step toward figuring out who you are and what you want to say.

2. A Positive Space Matters: Bluesky offers something rare—a platform where you’re not constantly dodging negativity. It’s a safe space to be awkward, experiment, and share without fear of trolls.

3. It’s About Connection, Not Numbers: Yes, it’s disheartening to have 11 followers while someone else gets 10k likes for “Good morning.” But even one meaningful connection can make showing up worthwhile.

And let’s not forget the humor of it all. Expecting Steven King results while posting quirky haikus about the void? Classic. But isn’t it kind of freeing to laugh at yourself and keep going anyway?

So, keep posting. Show up awkwardly, laugh at the crickets, and celebrate the little wins—like that one follower who isn’t Greg the bot. You’re not just building an audience; you’re building you.

Quick Tips to Get Started on Bluesky

• Set Up Your Profile:
  Choose a fun bio and a profile picture that feels like you. Bonus points if it’s quirky or sparkly—it’s a vibe.

• Explore Custom Feeds:
  Bluesky lets you follow topic-specific feeds (like “BookSky” for book lovers). Check them out to find your people!

• Start Small:
  Post something light and fun. Introduce yourself or share a random thought—it doesn’t have to be perfect.

• Engage with Others:
  Like, comment, or repost content you enjoy. (Yes, even if it’s just “Good morning.”) Interaction helps build connections.

• Follow with Intention:
  Look for accounts that resonate with you, whether they’re quirky, inspiring, or just delightfully weird.

• Use the Magic Block Button:
  If you see something that feels off, the block button is your friend. Bluesky makes it easy to keep your space positive.

• Embrace the Quiet:
  It’s okay if it feels slow at first. Treat it like a personal journal that occasionally gets a high-five.

• Keep Showing Up:
  Even if it feels like you’re shouting into the void, keep going. Sparks happen when you least expect them.

I'd love to see you over there! Join my very tiny tribe there and let me know so that I can follow you back!